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Friday, 9 January 2026

Revd Sally Muggeridge R.I.P.









At the beginning of December 2025 I received the sad news of the death of The Rev Sally Muggeridge, who served with me at St Stephen Walbrook as our curate. Sally's obituary has recently been published by The Telegraph, who characterise her as an Anglican priest who defended the reputation of her renowned uncle Malcolm Muggeridge. Ordained a vicar after a career in business, she ministered to ‘stressed City workers’ while at St Stephen Walbrook.

The opportunity to minister at St Stephen Walbrook together with Sally was one that I greatly enjoyed and appreciated. I greatly valued having her as a colleague. She was a special colleague with great insight and ideas coupled with real humility and a servant heart. We were very fortunate to have enjoyed Sally’s assistance and ministry at St Stephen Walbrook during her curacy and were particularly grateful for the links she established with the City and with businesses locally. 

Her pastoral heart combined with her business experience and insights was absolutely the right combination for ministry at Walbrook. Her understanding of the pressures of life in the City helped her provide the support others needed. As she said in an FT profile, “My role is now one of pastoral care of stressed City workers. So many seek chats, prayers, a quick discussion [about] a worry about family life and work. A prayer needed, a smile, a service — I can help with examples and encouragement.”'

Her time with us, as well as creating new links and initiatives with the business community, also broke down barriers as she was the first woman to preside at the Eucharist in St Stephen Walbrook. It was a privilege to be at the ‘At Home’ for WATCH during which she celebrated her first Eucharist and became the first woman to celebrate the Eucharist in that church. Her legacy also includes all she did to work on the legacy of Malcolm Muggeridge and I also remember our conversations about him and his impact with real pleasure. I will always remember her time with us and all she brought to ministry with deep gratitude.

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Choral Classics with the Choral Scholars of St Martin-in-the-Fields.

Saturday, 2 June 2018

Liturgy on the Edge: Pastoral and attractional worship


Liturgy on the Edge has been reviewed in Church Times. Reviewer Philip Welsh concludes: 'Liturgy on the Edge is an enjoyable, inspiring, provocative, and useful book. In one way or another, we all find ourselves (in Francis Thompson’s words) “betwixt heaven and Charing Cross.”'

He notes that: “we’re trying to find appropriate ways to help other organisations make the kind of journey we’ve made; but what we can’t do is offer them techniques for fixing their problems — we can only offer them inspiration and support for entering deeper into their mystery.”

and say that, "Reading about the experience of St Martin’s — including what it has learned from its occasional mistakes — is a stimulus to think more imaginatively, more collaboratively, more inclusively, and more theologically."

Liturgy on the Edge: Pastoral and attractional worship is a practical companion to creating pastoral liturgies arises from the vibrant ministry of St Martin-in-the-Fields which is designed to aid local ministry teams in devising forms of worship outside and beyond the scope of authorised church liturgy, yet in sympathy with its purposes and structures.

It includes outline liturgies for:
  • regular pastoral services, such as an informal Eucharist, worship for small groups or for a church away-day, a dementia-friendly service, a healing service, interfaith ceremonies.
  • acute pastoral needs, such as services for communities affected by local tragedy, those experiencing loss through violence.
  • outreach services in the open air or welcoming people into sacred space.
  • special services though the year for Homelessness Sunday, Prisoners Week, Holy Week, Harvest, Remembrance, a community carol service and more.
Each section is introduced with a reflection on theory and practice, and each item has a commentary on theological, liturgical and pastoral choices made with the aim of enabling practitioners to adapt and create liturgies for their own contexts.

Liturgy on the Edge: Pastoral and attractional worship is edited by Sam Wells with contributions from Richard Carter, Andrew Earis, Caroline Essex, Jonathan Evens, Katherine Hedderly, Alison Lyon, Alastair McKay, Fiona MacMillan and Will Morris.

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Choir of St Martin-in-the-Fields - Amazing Grace.

Friday, 18 May 2018

HeartEdge and Sheppard Scholars


St Martin-in-the-Fields is looking for our very first Sheppard Scholar.

Sheppard Scholars is a new Pastoral Assistant scheme at HeartEdge hub churches to support new and refreshed mission and ministry projects. Sheppard Scholars is a year long programme of theological study combined with practical pastoral work.

The role offers not only breadth of experience but also a range of responsibilities from participation and involvement to roles of leadership. The aim is to give a wide experience of ministry at the heart of the life of this church and at the same time to draw on the Pastoral Assistant’s own gifts and faith at a time of growth in the life of St Martin’s and HeartEdge. The role will involve liaising with other Sheppard Scholars, HeartEdge hubs and members.

If you are…..

  • Passionate – about creating a welcome and open place 
  • Creative – in finding solutions 
  • Hardworking – who can take the initiative to get things done 
  • Self-starting – excellent at organisation and calm under pressure 
  • Friendly – able to work in a large and varied team 
  • Approachable – the go to person

 …. please apply.

For more detail about HeartEdge please visit our website https://www.stmartin-in-the-fields.org/life-st-martins/mission/heartedge/.

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St Martin-in-the-Fields - A Hymn For St Cecilia.

Friday, 20 April 2018

Liturgy on the Edge: Pastoral and attractional worship


There are a growing number of HeartEdge-themed resources now available, including a selection of HeartEdge branded books.

These resources include ‘Inspired to Follow: Art and the Bible Story’, the online discipleship course which St Martin-in-the-Fields launched at Greenbelt 2017 and which has now been downloaded more than 400 times. HeartEdge-branded books include: ‘For Good: The Church and the Future of Welfare’, ‘Who Is My Neighbour? The Global and Personal Challenge’ and ‘Liturgy on the Edge: Pastoral and Attractional Worship’. These are books which speak into key issues and situations of our time in ways that have been described as timely, valuable and courageous. They are commended as richly challenging, deeply engaging and as being outstanding guides.

The most recent is Liturgy on the Edge: Pastoral and attractional worship; a practical companion to creating pastoral liturgies arises from the vibrant ministry of St Martin-in-the-Fields which is designed to aid local ministry teams in devising forms of worship outside and beyond the scope of authorised church liturgy, yet in sympathy with its purposes and structures.

It includes outline liturgies for:
  • regular pastoral services, such as an informal Eucharist, worship for small groups or for a church away-day, a dementia-friendly service, a healing service, interfaith ceremonies.
  • acute pastoral needs, such as services for communities affected by local tragedy, those experiencing loss through violence.
  • outreach services in the open air or welcoming people into sacred space.
  • special services though the year for Homelessness Sunday, Prisoners Week, Holy Week, Harvest, Remembrance, a community carol service and more.
Each section is introduced with a reflection on theory and practice, and each item has a commentary on theological, liturgical and pastoral choices made with the aim of enabling practitioners to adapt and create liturgies for their own contexts.

Liturgy on the Edge: Pastoral and attractional worship is edited by Sam Wells with contributions from Richard Carter, Andrew Earis, Caroline Essex, Jonathan Evens, Katherine Hedderly, Alison Lyon, Alastair McKay, Fiona MacMillan and Will Morris.

My contribution to the book concerns Start:Stop and I will be leading a HeartEdge workshop about Start:Stop at St Martin's on Thursday 24 May from 2.00 - 4.00pm. This is an opportunity to learn about this popular 10-minute work-based reflection for people on their way to work. The session includes: growing a new congregation; engaging with working people; ministering in the workplace and communicating with busy people. Book by emailing me at jonathan.evens@smitf.org or by calling on 020 7766 1127. HeartEdge members - free. Non-members - £10.

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Will Todd - Call Of Wisdom.

Thursday, 23 June 2016

Ministry to City folk: examples and encouragement


Sally Muggeridge, curate at St Stephen Walbrook, has been profiled in today's Financial Times:

'Her current workplace is the church of St Stephen Walbrook, in the heart of the City. Given its location, few of its congregation are local residents. Instead, its most frequent visitors are workers from nearby offices, and Revd Muggeridge believes her understanding of the pressures of life in the City helps her provide the support they need.

“My role is now one of pastoral care of stressed City workers,” she says. “So many seek chats, prayers, a quick discussion [about] a worry about family life and work. A prayer needed, a smile, a service — I can help with examples and encouragement.”'


As part of her ministry in the City, Sally is currently organising our 'Women in the City of London - More than just a place of work' event on Tuesday 12th July from 6.30pm. This is an evening which will highlight the civic, cultural, charitable and social opportunities in the City of London, including networks as a route to fuller participation.

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Bloc Party - Virtue.

Thursday, 14 April 2016

The Good Shepherd: Learning the only true leadership

Here is my sermon from today's Eucharist at St Stephen Walbrook:

“In a pastoral society like ancient Israel, sheep and shepherds were used to describe the relationship of God with his people: ‘the Lord is my shepherd’ and ‘we are his people, the sheep of his pasture’ (Pss 23:1; 100:3)” (Richard A. Burridge, John).

In Jesus’ time, sheep were very important as they provided both food and clothing. Shepherd’s had to have a nomadic lifestyle because of the available pasture. They had to travel with their sheep from one region to another as the seasons changed. This created the close relationship between sheep and shepherd that we hear Jesus describing and using in this reading: “The Shepherd cares for his sheep, calls them by name, leads them to pasture and water, finds shelter for them in inclement weather, defends them against bandits and wolves, and willingly lays down his life for them. The sheep have great confidence in the shepherd. They recognize his voice, obey his commands, and they follow wherever he leads them” (http://www.frksj.org/homily_the_good_shepherd.htm).

“The word “good” (kalos …) means first and foremost beautiful – the good shepherd is attractive. At the same time he is good at his work. So this attractive and very skilled shepherd draws us to himself and is able to provide accurately for our needs” (Stephen Verney, Water into Wine)

“Jesus … is the good shepherd, who knows his own sheep as they know him (10:14). Shepherds called their sheep out of the fold by their names and the flock followed their voice (10:3-4). The Greek word for church literally means ‘called out’, ec-clesia, from which all our ‘ecclesiastical’ words are derived. Jesus’ knowledge of his sheep is rooted in his knowledge of his Father and his Father knowing him as his Son.” (Burridge)

Stephen Verney writes that “… the Son can do nothing of himself, but he simply looks at the Father and whatever he sees the Father doing so he does too … the Father holds back nothing for himself but gives everything to the Son. So it is, says Jesus, between the Good Shepherd and his sheep – between me and mine, and mine and me. They are in my heart, and there I see them in all their human ambiguity. I see what they are and what they can be, and I give myself to them. And I am in their hearts … That is how the Good Shepherd knows his sheep, and how they know him. They do not simply know about him, or pass examinations in theology, or even read books about John’s gospel. They know him in their personal experience.” (Verney).

“What is more, God’s love is universal, so the shepherd must also be concerned for ‘other sheep … not of this fold’, who will also hear his voice and be brought together into one flock (10:16)” (Burridge). What Jesus says here is that what he offers is not simply for a little exclusive group but is for the whole human race.

The Good Shepherd lays down his life for the sheep: “The word “life” (psychē …) is impossible to translate by any one English word. The psychē means the self, or the ego, or the soul. It can be the centre of our earthly life, or the centre of our supernatural life. If the shepherd lays down his psychē for the sheep he is offering them this centre of his inner life, in all its varied aspects …” (Verney).

Lesslie Newbigin writes that: “Here is the unmistakable criterion by which true leadership is to be distinguished from false. We are familiar with the kind of leadership which is simply a vast overextension of the ego. The ultimate goal – whether openly acknowledged or not – is the glory of the leader. The rest are instrumental to this end. He does not love them but makes use of them for his own ends. He is a hireling – in the business of leadership for what he can get out it. By contrast the mark of the true leader is that of the cross” (The Light Has Come).

This is a challenge then to all involved in the pastoral care of God’s people. It takes time and effort to know everyone individually, even as God knows us, and caring for them as Christ laid down his life for us may demand the ultimate sacrifice. The ordination charge for priests in the Church of England says ‘as servant and shepherd … set the Good Shepherd always before you as the pattern of your calling … to search for his children in the wilderness of this world’s temptations … the treasure now to be entrusted to you is Christ’s own flock’. This is true whether we are an Archbishop or a bible study group leader, a minister or just visiting an elderly person around the corner – we love others as the good shepherd loves us.” As Lesslie Newbigin writes, “This is the way for all humankind, and to follow this way is to learn the only true leadership.”

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The Crown College Choir - The King Of Love My Shepherd Is.

Friday, 24 July 2015

Start:Stop - Pastors to our colleagues and customers.


Bible reading: John 10. 1-10

“Very truly, I tell you, anyone who does not enter the sheepfold by the gate but climbs in by another way is a thief and a bandit. The one who enters by the gate is the shepherd of the sheep. The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep hear his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes ahead of them, and the sheep follow him because they know his voice. They will not follow a stranger, but they will run from him because they do not know the voice of strangers.” Jesus used this figure of speech with them, but they did not understand what he was saying to them.

So again Jesus said to them, “Very truly, I tell you, I am the gate for the sheep. All who came before me are thieves and bandits; but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the gate. Whoever enters by me will be saved, and will come in and go out and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.

Meditation

Security issues and dealing with thefts are often a standard part of doing ministry in churches. The theft of lead from roofs has at times been a constant worry and a recent press article covered the finding of a stash of items taken from churches, many of which could not be traced back to their original location. In this reading, Jesus could almost have been a PCSO giving us security advice with this story which is, as usual with Jesus, drawn from the working life of his own day.

The sheepfold was the place of safety for the sheep; a place of rest during the darkness of the night where intentions could be disguised and thieves were at work. In the light of the day when people could be seen for what they were, there was no need to remain in the safety of the sheepfold and the sheep would follow their shepherd out from the fold to pasture.

In the course of John 10, Jesus describes himself both as the way in to the safety of the sheepfold and as the shepherd that the sheep know and trust to take them out to pasture. Jesus has the best interests of the sheep at heart providing safety and pasture in contrast to the thieves who come only to steal, kill and destroy. So, this is a pastoral story about providing pastoral care.

All work is to some extent pastoral. Even when we are not in the specifically caring professions, we still have a pastoral responsibility towards colleagues, team members, partners etc. So, are we legit or are we thieves? In other words, is our work focused on the nurture and care of those with whom we have contact or are we out to fleece them?

Prayer

Jesus, you are the good Shepherd leading us to pasture; may we seek to nurture those in our care. May our conversation be positive and uplifting. May we provide prompts, encouragement and ideas for personal development and change. May we encourage others in the use and development of their skills and abilities.

Focus our work on the nurture and care of those with whom we have contact. Make us pastors to our colleagues and customers.

Jesus, you are the way in to safety and salvation; may we seek to protect those in our care. May we do all we can to create secure environments in our workplaces from concern for health and safety to openness and honesty which enables others to voice what they are thinking and feeling.

Focus our work on the nurture and care of those with whom we have contact. Make us pastors to our colleagues and customers.

Jesus, you give to us life in all its fullness; may our work enhance the lives of others. Make us more aware of those for whom we work, their needs and services we provide to them. Make us those who provide services with a high level of customer care which maintains good relations.

Focus our work on the nurture and care of those with whom we have contact. Make us pastors to our colleagues and customers.

Blessing

Giving and receiving nurture and care, creating safe spaces, maintaining good relations and receiving life in all its fullness. May those blessings of God Almighty, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, rest upon you and remain with you always. Amen.

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Luxury - To You Who Gave Me Hope And Were My Light.


Sunday, 10 April 2011

Ministry Leadership Team

Today was our Annual Parochial Church Meeting, which included the following sermon:

Acts 13.1-3 shows us one way in which a missionary church of the first century was organised in the period covered by the New Testament. In the church at Antioch, we see:

• Members exercised different gifts; as there were, at least, prophets and teachers in this church (13.1a);
• Barnabas, Simeon called Niger, Lucius of Cyrene, Manaen (who had been brought up with Herod the tetrarch) and Saul were representative of the culture of the area (13.1b);
• They were also part of the worshipping and praying congregation; as they were chosen while worshipping the Lord and fasting (13.2a);
• Set apart for kingdom work i.e. the work to which God called them (13.2b);
• Sent out for apostolic ministry in wider community (13.3); but
• Remained accountable to church leaders and members of the church (14.26-27).

Ministry as Partnership - MaP - is the name the Chelmsford Diocese has given to new models of Christian ministry which were beginning to be developed at the turn of the millennium and which aim to bring us back to patterns of church life that more resemble the missionary church of the first century.

At its heart, Ministry as Partnership seeks to affirm and encourage the calling of the whole people of God. It is about identifying and releasing all the gifts God has given us to be more effectively his church, principles which now underpin all diocesan and national strategies, including the major Mission Shaped Church and Fresh Expressions initiatives.

Within our changing world and culture, parishes are delivering ministry in many different ways. No one way is appropriate for all, but where the God-given gifts of all baptised members of the local church are being identified and used, there is growing confidence and a greater sense of moving forward. Historically, we may not have as many stipendiary posts, but there have never been so many following a calling, whether in a commissioned ministry or more informally.

Ministry as Partnership provides a process for establishing a Ministry Leadership Team within a local church. A Ministry Leadership Team is essentially those who lead, encourage and build up the work of the whole Body of Christ on behalf of the PCC. This year our PCC has taken the decision that we should set up a Ministry Leadership Team at St John’s Seven Kings.

The Ministry as Partnership process has five steps for establishing a Ministry Leadership Team within a local church:

• Building the vision – assessing where we are and discerning where we would like to be
• Making decisions – envisioning a team to suit local needs
• Forming a team – practical guidance for getting underway
• Staying fit – the ongoing life of the team, particularly at transition stages
• Going deeper – theology and ecclesiology for leaders and others

Looking at these five steps, you can see that we have already been working on the first two. We have our Church vision, which we reviewed in the first year or so that I was here:

That led to a renewed focus on our engagement with the local community which has in turn led to new people joining the church. As a result, we have moved onto Step 2 which is about envisioning all of us for ministry. Our Vocations Sunday service led on to the SHAPE course, the faith and work video interviews, and currently the Care and Share Lent course. All of which have emphasised that all believers of all ages and abilities have been called by God and have a vocation to follow. All have gifts to offer for the common good of the church and world.

All of which means that we are now ready for Step 3 which is where we form the Ministry Leadership Team itself. In the coming months, we will be asking you to think and pray about five areas of ministry here at St John’s and which members of our congregation could be responsible for each of these areas. It could be you! The five ministry areas are: Children and Youth; Mission; Pastoral; Peace and Justice; and Worship.

The kind of people that we will be seeking as leaders are those who have a developing spiritual life of their own and who seek to nurture and disciple others. Leadership is a gift for the common good and we will be asking those who become responsible for these areas of ministry to work in partnership with all those who are also involved in that area of ministry. Christian leadership is less to do with command-and-control than with establishing the environment within which others are empowered to use their gifts. The corporate leadership at St John’s (i.e. licensed minister(s), the PCC and the Ministry Leadership Team) are the guardians of God’s vision for this community of faith.

At St John's we will all have the opportunity over the next few months to reflect more on these areas of ministry and what is involved in taking them forward. Working towards partnership in ministry is a demanding and worthwhile challenge within which prayer deserves to be a high priority. In setting new directions, let us seek to keep in step with the purposes of God in the power of the Spirit; joining in partnership as God works in his world and his church.

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Delirious? - Now Is The Time.

Tuesday, 8 March 2011

Care and share

Over the past six months at St John's Seven Kings we have been talking and thinking through how we are using who we are to serve God in the church, at work, with our family and friends, in the community and our voluntary/leisure activities. We began with a Vocations Sunday in September, continued by studying the SHAPE Course and, most recently, have had a Sunday morning series of video interviews in which members of the congregation have shared ways in which their faith is expressed through their work (paid and voluntary).

We are continuing this thinking into our Lent Course this year by using a Course called Care and Share which looks at the basics of pastoral care. The course aims to enable us to develop our skills in confidence and understanding and listening through five sessions covering: What is Pastoral care? Visiting and Listening; Making Contact; Dealing with loss; and Getting organised.

Many, perhaps all of us, provide care to someone else through work (paid and voluntary), in our family, with neighbours or friends, through our church. So, we can all benefit from reflecting on our approaches and thinking about the resources for caring which our faith provides. St John’s already has a committed group of people involved in pastoral visits, home communions, and prayer ministry. After coming to the Care and Share course, participants might want to think about whether they could be a part of that group or show care in other ways such as the prayer chain or Redbridge Voluntary Care, among others.

As in previous years, the Lent Courses are a shared activity with the other churches in the Seven Kings Fellowship of Churches. This year, Goodmayes Methodist Church, Seven Kings Methodist Church and St Peter’s Aldborough Hatch are all hosting Lent Courses and all are welcome to join one of those groups.

These churches will be studying Rich Inheritance - Jesus' legacy of love, a York Course written by Bishop Stephen Cottrell, the new Bishop of Chelmsford. Jesus didn’t write a will. He left no written instructions. He didn’t seem to have a plan. At the end, as he hung dying on the cross, almost all of his followers had abandoned him. By most worldly estimates his ministry was a failure. Nevertheless, Jesus’ message of reconciliation with God lived on. It is the central message of the Bible. With this good news his disciples changed the world. How did they do it? What else did Jesus leave behind – what is his ‘legacy of love’? This course addresses these questions.

The participants on the Rich Inheritance course CD are: Roman Catholic Archbishop of Westminster, Vincent Nichols; writer and lecturer in Biblical studies, Paula Gooder; and author and public theologian, Jim Wallis. Dr David Hope introduces the course and Methodist minister Inderjit Bhogal provides the Closing Reflection at the end of each session.

Love is at the heart of both these courses. We love because God first loved us. (1 John 4:19). Pastoral care is at the centre of the church’s mission and ministry because it has one fundamental aim - to help people know love, both to receive and to give. Pastoral care is our response to God’s unconditional love and, through it, we follow Jesus’ command to ‘love one another as I have loved you’.

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Victoria Williams - Love.

Tuesday, 30 June 2009

Evangelism & Pastoral Care

Daisy Stephens, from St Johns Seven Kings, with Archbishop Rowan at the Present & Engaged Study Day

I said that I would post a summary of Ann Morisey's excellent presentation on 'Evangelism and Pastoral Care' given at the Present and Engaged study day. There was much that resonated with me in Ann's talk so much so that, at times, it felt as though she were describing what I aim to practice (although consistently falling well short) in my ministry.

My summary of Ann's presentation is below. Other material from the day has also been published including the insightful sermon that Archbishop Rowan Williams gave later in the day to launch the Greater London Presence and Engagement Network (http://www.archbishopofcanterbury.org/2464). For a full set of materials from the day, email Angus Ritchie, Director of the Contextual Theology Centre, at director@theology-centre.org.

Anne said that: "We are living in troubled times and people have become bothered and bewildered by fragmentation and are tempted into a neo-tribalism. These dynamics have been exposed very clearly in the European elections. Anxiety and fear easily gain momentum and under such conditions our instinctive response is scapegoating and death-dealing.

René Girard begins his explanation of the dynamic of scapegoating by postulating the ‘mimetic of desire’, which is basically a kind of jealousy, but with a twist: we learn what is desirable by observing what others find desirable. Having ‘caught’ our desires from others, in a context of scarcity, everyone wants what only some can have. This results in a struggle to obtain what we want - which in turn produces a generalised antagonism towards the individual or group that seems to be responsible for this disappointment.

The vicious riddance of the victim has the potential to reduce the eagerness for violence, and if not, then the assumption is that more scapegoats need to be sacrificed in order to achieve a sense of appeasement and restoration of the status quo. The removal of the victim or victims – the lambs to the slaughter, gives a temporary re-assurance of the crisis disappearing, and the sensation of renewed possibility. This is a description of cheap solidarity and cheap hope.

Girard concludes his anthropological and literary analysis of scapegoating by examining Judeo-Christian texts, and traces the movement away from the dynamic of scapegoating through the Old into the New Testaments. It was this experience that contributed to Girard’s conversion to the Christian faith. His analysis of the Bible ‘as literature’ led him to conclude:
  • That Jesus is the final scapegoat.

  • The New Testament is ‘on the side of’ Jesus, the scapegoat. The Gospels are unusual because here is literature that encourages people to see the world through the eyes of the scapegoat.

  • The scapegoat in the Gospels refuses to let death be the final word and he rises again triumphant.

  • The followers of the scapegoat enact the seizing of the scapegoat, and the scapegoat’s triumph over death, in Eucharistic celebration.
I focus on Girard for two reasons: The obvious one - because of the relevance of his ideas to our context where ‘difference’ – whether faith or ethnicity, easily becomes a threat. But for a further reason: Girard is not a theologian! He, as an anthropologist, is more likely to pass what John Rawls terms “the test of public reason” than the theologian or the clergy, or the committed lay person for that matter. Let me re-code – or decode Rawls’ term “the test of public reason”…. ‘Self-praise is no recommendation’! And of course – in our secular world, all faiths have to submit themselves to the test of public reason if they are to have a right to a public platform.

So on the public stage it becomes possible to offer a new aspect of the gift of salvation that Jesus brings to us: it brings insight into our hatred and murderous behaviour, and endeavours to help people move beyond the anxious laden response of scapegoating – and importantly, it is not just theologians and the churches who say so! The missionary challenge is to find creative ways of helping people to hear and explore this insight, and the pastoral challenge is to help people appropriate, or take this gift of insight into their (our) practice.

Jesus, through his death and resurrection rescues us, as Girard suggests, from scapegoating but Jesus also bring salvation to us by the way in which he lived his life. In his actions and teaching, Jesus shows us how we can participate in a reliable economy of abundance. The tendency has been for the church – and others to assume that economy of abundance belongs to the realm of Heaven rather than earth. This is a mistake.

Jesus lived his life in a very distinctive way. This included: eschewing Power; willing to risk being overwhelmed ; subverting the ‘status quo’; wide ‘fraternal’ relations; avoiding tit-for tat’ behaviour; and investing in the most unlikely. My thesis is straightforward: When we muster an intention to do things like Jesus i.e. to follow Jesus – even in the most modest of ways, we arrive at the portal into the economy of abundance – where virtuous processes flow and grace cascades.
In our troubled times the faiths have to forego investing and promulgating ‘hard-to-believe’ formulaic faith – which for post-modern and troubled times are so hard to believe that the come close to a fresh expression of …. Gnosticism. So for the Church there is a new evangelistic challenge: To enable people to weigh-up whether the example of Jesus can provide a way of making sense of their lives, within a hope filled rather than gloomy future.

However, in troubled times, the expression of pastoral care also brings arduous challenges: by caring and loving, more than ever, we risk having our hearts broken … as much as finding fulfilment; compassionate responses risk being judged as naiveté; and we need the capacity to coach people in the neglected practice of self discipline if not to be imprisoned by our circumstances. And this carries a major challenge to authenticity…

Such vulnerability is essential – because this is the foundation for boundary breaking compassion that can embrace rather than scapegoat the stranger. The solidarity that is rooted in shared vulnerability makes for courageous compassion – and this combination of courage and compassion has not, so far, been called out of our Christian generation.

A resilient theology insists that current hopelessness and passivity are not the final word. A resilient theology enables us not just to see new possibilities, but to garner the intentionality to practice these possibilities. But even more than this, resilient theology continually acknowledges human frailty to the extent that perfection is never expected, otherwise the wonderful, liberating generosity of being treated better than we deserve - this ultimate ‘alternative performance’ that Jesus offers, becomes unnecessary.

Such a resilient theology only becomes possible when evangelism and pastoral care are held together."

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Robert Randolph & The Family Band - Going In The Right Direction.

Sunday, 2 March 2008

Healing & reconciliation

Here is today's sermon for St John's based on John 19. 25 - 27:

Jesus is dying in agony as he hangs on the cross. You would think that all his remaining energies and focus would be on himself and his imminent end. That is not the case. The Gospel accounts, taken as a whole, record seven separate statements made by Jesus from the cross, many of which reflect his concern for others instead of concern for himself.

That is the case here, when he sees his mother and “the disciple whom he loved” (traditionally identified as being John) at the foot of the cross. His concern is that both will be bereft following his death and so he specifically gives them one to the other as a support to each other. In this we can see something of the depth of Christ’s love for us as individuals; that even in this moment of personal agony and torture his concern is directed towards the wellbeing of others. In this way, these words and this action are like a little vignette or parable revealing the purpose of his death which is reconciliation and love.

The death of a loved one can, in itself, be a trigger for acts of reconciliation and support within families and wider networks. Where there is a period of illness prior to death, people will gather together to visit their loved one and that person may have specific instructions, advice or encouragement that they wish to share with individuals or the wider family or group. Even where that has not been the case, because death is sudden and unexpected, the funeral can also be a focal point for those who have not been in regular contact with each other to gather.
We see in this story that Jesus has a concern for his family and friends to support each other following his death and his words are designed to facilitate that support. As a direct result of Jesus’ words, Mary comes to live with John. I have been part of funeral arrangements and services where something similar has been the outcome and, on occasion, where these words of Jesus have played a part in creating that understanding.

A death throws into stark relief the need that we all have for support in our lives through our families and friends but we don’t have to wait for a death to occur to take seriously the importance of sustaining those relationships and healing them where they have broken down.
Communion is a regular reminder to us of the death of Christ and, therefore, can also be a moment for that kind of reflection. Jesus made this explicit in his teaching when he said: “if you offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there at the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.” (Matthew 5. 23 & 24)

A second reflection that emerges from this story is the possibility of being what Henri Nouwen has called being a “wounded healer”. Each of us has areas of weakness, hurt or difficulty in our lives and it is possible for us simply to think of these things in the negative terms that those words imply. However, Jesus’ incarnation and death show us that God accepts and takes on weakness, hurt and difficulty in order to effect healing and reconciliation. If we follow that example, then there is the possibility of a changed understanding for us of those things that we think of as weakness, hurt or difficulty in our own lives and of these becoming points of connection and help for others.

Henri Nouwen says: “a shared pain is no longer paralyzing but mobilizing, when understood as a way to liberation. When we become aware that we do not have to escape our pains, but that we can mobilize them into a common search for life, those very pains are transformed from expressions of despair into signs of hope.”

Many of you know about my own experience of grief both in the death of my younger brother and the recent death of my father. For me, in my ministry, these experiences can help me in understanding and sharing with others who are grieving and, in this way, they can become positive experiences. That is not to say that I stop grieving for my brother and father or that the sense of loss I feel becomes less. It is not that I have in some way ‘recovered’ from grief that means I can minister to others, rather it is the fact that I continue to feel the wound of grief that makes that ministry possible.

The forgiveness and love that we receive from Jesus comes out of his experience of the agony and torture of death. It comes out of the wound of crucifixion and this is why it is of significance that his resurrected body continues to bear the marks of those wounds. We do not need to become perfect in order to be accepted and loved by God nor do we need to recover from weakness, hurt and difficulty in order to minister to others. Sometimes it is the willingness and openness to share our own experience of pain and suffering, not in order to burden another, but as an act of empathy with another that is just the support and healing that that other person needs.

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Emmylou Harris - Here I Am.

Monday, 4 February 2008

Pastoral presence


Ven. Elwin Cockett (Archdeacon of West Ham and Chaplain to West Ham United FC) speaking at the Men's Breakfast held at St John's Seven Kings on Saturday 2nd February.
Saturday's Men's Breakfast at St John's was very well attended with men coming from St John's, St Laurence's, St Andrew's and the United Free Church to enjoy a cooked breakfast and the Archdeacon's presentation.
In his talk Elwin Cockett told the story of how, as an ardent Hammers fan, he had had the idea of becoming chaplain to West Ham while training for ordination. In describing his role at the club he spoke about his involvements with players, managers and backroom staff and gave his views on current issues within the game.

Elwin's role at the club is a pastoral one and he spoke with real understanding of the various pressures (financial and media, among others) faced by players, managers and staff. He gave a fascinating insight into the way in which a chaplain can be a pastoral presence in a high pressure environment.

We had a great response to the event in terms of people coming and interest in Elwin's talk and will, as a result, organise more Men's Breakfasts in future.

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West Ham fans - I'm Forever Blowing Bubbles.

Friday, 1 February 2008

Grief

Several of us at St John’s have lost loved ones over the Christmas period and that means that all of us at St John’s have been dealing with grief as we have tried to express our support for those who are grieving.

In Romans 8. 18 St Paul makes this very bold statement: “I consider that what we suffer at this present time cannot be compared at all with the glory that is going to be revealed to us.”

When we are in the midst of grief a statement like that can easily sound like the false optimism of those who would tell us to snap out of it and get on with the rest of our lives. The loss of a loved one leaves a hole in our lives and among our family or friends that is never completed filled and which cannot be fully understood by others who are not experiencing the grief that we feel.

And yet, the Christian hope is that we and our world will be transformed, that we will participate in the death and resurrection of Christ and live resurrected lives together with Christ in the kingdom of God which is heaven come to earth where there will be no more death, grief, crying or pain because God will wipe all tears from our eyes and the old things will be no more.

When we are grieving or when we are simply living out our lives, that transformation can seem to be no more than a pleasant dream or a piece of wish fulfilment. Yet, like Paul, I believe that we can know it in part now and will experience it in full in future.

The gap between our suffering and the glory that is to be revealed is not as minimal as Paul seems to make it in his bold statement. In between suffering and glory there is the pain and groaning of which he writes in Romans 8. 22-27 but the amazing thing of which he writes is that God’s Spirit groans with us in ways that our words cannot express. God knows grief and shares our grief enabling us to express our grief and through this to achieve the vision of transformation and rebirth into which he longs for us to come.

After my brother Nick died I talked with members of the Tear Fund team who had worked with Nick rebuilding homes in Kosovo. They told me about the effect that Nick had had on the Kosovan people with whom he had worked and also on other members of the team as they had valued his friendship, support and advice. As they talked, the tears flowed; theirs and ours and, I believe, God’s as he was with us at the time enabling us to express our grief. But, as they talked, I also had a growing sense that Nick had gone into God’s presence and had been welcomed with the words, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” In that moment I glimpsed something of the glory into which Nick had entered and that glimpse continues to sustain and strengthen me in my loss.

My experience of grief suggests that it is as we cry out in our grief that God meets with us. He is alongside us through his Spirit and will speak for us in groans that words cannot express. We should not be afraid of tears, of memories, of stories, they are an expression of the love we feel. But as we share our grief with others we can also catch a glimpse of the glory that waits to be revealed to us and into which our loved ones have entered and that glimpse will sustain us as we deal with grief in our everyday lives.

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Ilse de Lange - I Still Cry.

Saturday, 8 December 2007

Go gently

The lifeforce runs deep within our veins.
After conscious actions become involuntary,
after eyes become unfocused,
after hands become still and lifeless,
the heart still beats and lungs inhale,
breaths are snatched as something precious
and coughs battle secretions
to obtain air.
I pray, let go,
lose life to love life.
I pray, surrender,
from striving, for serving.
I pray, release,
returning, reviving, resting.
I pray, knowing that,
from fisticuffs at Grammar School,
you have been a fighter.
I pray, knowing that
throughout trials and tribulations,
your spirit has stayed strong.
I pray, knowing that
the lifeforce runs deep
in your veins.
I pray, knowing you will not,
go gentle into that bright light.

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Cat Stevens - Father and Son.

Thursday, 6 December 2007

Marking time

Blue aprons, washed hands,
mouth swabs, aloe vera gel,
saturated host on tongue.
Distressed coughing, suctioned secretions,
palliative care, eyes opening,
final goodbyes with each leave taking.
Thinking-of-you cards, past memories,
kisses, night prayers.
Moments of time,
marking time passing
in the slow movement of decline
towards your passing on.

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Lamb - Gorecki.

Tuesday, 6 November 2007

In the desert

A couple of days ago my niece said, "I love Grandad, up, up, up ..." My sister and mum expected her to say, "up in heaven," but instead she said, "up in the desert."

The prosaic reason for this is probably that my Mum and Dad had told her about visiting the desert during their recent holiday in Israel and had enthused about how interesting the desert there was.

More profoundly, as children's insights often are, my Dad (her grandad) is, through his illness, now in the desert metaphorically. Time spent in the desert has often been seen as liminal or transitional time and that is certainly where my Dad is currently. Caught between the life he has lived for 71 years and the life he will continue to live with Christ after death, what he is currently experiencing in his unconcious but still breathing state is no life at all by comparison.

When the Israelites travelled through the wilderness they, despite their meanderings and circlings, were en-route for the Promised Land. The same could be said of my Dad. Their meanderings and circlings were deemed necessary for learning lessons that would be needed when they entered the Promised Land. Quite what my Dad can or is learning from his wilderness experience I do not know.

It may be, of course, that there are lessons for our family to learn from this wilderness time; because that is also where we are as we wait for something to happen, speaking to, touching, and praying for him not knowing whether he can hear or register any or all of what we do, say or feel. Again, if there are lessons to be learned at the moment I do not know what the hell they are!

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Black Eyed Peas - Where is the love?

Thursday, 1 November 2007

That wholeness may pervade

My whole family are very grateful for all the messages and prayers of our friends and family as we cope with the illness of my father.

What has happened is that a bleed in the brain was followed by successful surgery to release pressure on the brain. However, following that surgery, my father had a cardiac arrest and required resuscitation. The combination of brain damage from that episode and fluid on one lung leaves him in a position where the medical diagnosis is that he is unlikely to regain a significant quality of life.

He is currently in intensive care and we continue to visit him and to pray for him. The following prayer, sent by Peter Challen, is one that I have found of particular help:

Living God,
calm the soul,
strengthen the body,
inspire the mind,
of this your servant,
that wholeness may pervade
his life and energise
the resilience that heals.

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Relient K - When I Go Down.

Tuesday, 30 October 2007

The fragility of existence

My father is critically ill in hospital following brain surgery and a cardiac arrest. At moments like these your world comes to a halt while all around you the worlds of other people continue at breakneck speed. At moments like these life becomes a matter of whether another person will take another breath or their heart another beat and you become intensely aware of the fragility of the life on which we build such frantic constructs.

I have been deeply moved by the skill, commitment and support of the medical staff treating my father and of the human creativity that has developed the treatments they use. Their meticulous, commited and caring work seems a supreme example of the best that human beings can be and yet, where they are able to do so, they return many of us to selfish and self-destructive lifestyles that impact our planet as well as ourselves. It seems that such lifestyles are only sustainable through a wilful shading of our eyes from reality and that each of us, hard as we find it to deal with, could only benefit from more real encounters with the fragility of existence.

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Athlete - Wires.