Showing posts with label weddings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label weddings. Show all posts
Thursday, 15 December 2016
Weddings at St Stephen Walbrook
Weddings at St Stephen Walbrook are wonderful occasions. To inform couples thinking of St Stephen Walbrook as a possible location for their wedding, we have recently updated the information on our website about weddings held here. To view our leaflet on 'Getting Married at St Stephen Walbrook click here.
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Henry Purcell - Trumpet Tune and Air.
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Monday, 10 February 2014
National Marriage Week display
Here is this year's National Marriage Week display at St John's Seven Kings as created by our Mothers' Union branch. This year's display focuses on the things which sustain a marriage and feature Wedding photos of two couples from our congregation celebrating 60th anniversaries this year, one couple celebrating their 50th anniversary plus one of two couples from our congregation who were married at the turn of this year.
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CeCe Winans - I Promise (Wedding Song).
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Tuesday, 16 April 2013
Windows and gardens: Chigwell and Capel Manor
I went with my Mum and youngest daughter today to see St Mary's Chigwell, as it is the church where my eldest daughter will be getting married this summer. The church has an engraved window of Christ and the Children by Jennifer Conway, who was a pupil of John Hutton. When Hutton's King Lear and Cordelia panel at the entrance to the Shakespeare Birthplace Trust Gallery at Stratford upon Avon was damaged, Conway made a copy. Her engraved windows can be found at St Mary Barcombe and St Nicholas Sandhurst, as well as St Mary Chigwell. St Mary's also have a Christ and the Magi window by Frederick Cole. Afterwards we went to see the interesting show gardens at Capel Manor.
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Larry Norman - She's A Dancer.
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Sunday, 12 August 2012
What Would Jesus Do in marriage
One of the bands that young people are wearing on their arms these days have the letters WWJD on them. WWJD stands for What Would Jesus Do and, when Romans 15. 1 - 13 says “May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,” this passage is saying that you can’t follow a better rule of thumb in life or in marriage than that.
So as we think What Would Jesus Do in marriage we start by asking what does it mean to the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had. St Paul answers that question in his letter to the Philippians. There he says that the attitude you should have is the one that Christ Jesus had:
6 Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 Instead of this, of his own free will he gave up all he had,
and took the nature of a servant.
He became like a human being
and appeared in human likeness.
8 He was humble and walked the path of obedience all the way to death—
his death on the cross.
6 Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 Instead of this, of his own free will he gave up all he had,
and took the nature of a servant.
He became like a human being
and appeared in human likeness.
8 He was humble and walked the path of obedience all the way to death—
his death on the cross.
In marriage you are equal partners but, if you want to have the same attitude as Jesus, you won’t use your equality for your own advantage. Instead, each of you will do all you can to serve the other by giving all that you have and are to the other. God so loved that he gave and it is when we are in the mindset of giving to others that we are most fully in the mindset of Christ.
According to Paul, in Romans 15. 1 - 13, this means bearing with the failings of the other by not pleasing ourselves and seeking to please our neighbours for their good, to build them up. So, Paul is commending patience with the failings of the other and affirmation and encouragement of the other in order to build that person up. Remember, of course, that this intended to be mutual - two-way support and affirmation – but you should also be able to see that true love always involves sacrifice. In Jesus’ case, as we were reminded by the Philippians reading, this involved the ultimate sacrifice of his own life. Married love rarely involves the ultimate sacrifice but, when we are told to please our partner for their good rather than pleasing ourselves, we can see that sacrifice is involved.
Finally Paul says, “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you.” Ultimately, your relationship needs to be based not just on the love that you have for each other but on the love that Jesus has for each of you as individuals. He accepts you as you are – while you were still sinners he died for you. He didn’t wait for you to change and earn his love before dying for you. No, while you were still turned away from him is when he poured out his love on you by making the ultimate sacrifice for you. You are both loved equally and eternally by God and it is as you receive that love and marvel at that love that you will see the true beauty of your partner.
Let’s be frank, there are days for all of us who are married when we don’t feel love towards our partner. For whatever reason, there are days when we feel angry or frustrated with them. In those moments, we need to remember that ultimately the worth of our partner does not lie in what she or he has done to us or how I feel about that, their true worth lies in the fact that Jesus loved them so much that he gave his own life for them. When we allow that reality to come into the mix then it becomes possible to bear with the failings of our partner, not please ourselves and seek to please our partner for their good, to build them up.
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Delirious? - Hang On To You.
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Thursday, 26 July 2012
Two hour turn around
We went from this set up in our worship area at St John's Seven Kings for our Holiday Club this morning to the following set up within two hours for an afternoon wedding. My thanks to all who worked so hard to make this two hour turn around possible.
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Bob Dylan - Wedding Song.
Sunday, 29 January 2012
St John's Seven Kings: Our Weekend
This weekend at St John's Seven Kings has been full of the usual variety. There have been first aid demonstrations with our youth group, a naming ceremony for a new baby, a wedding, a medieval Murder Mystery evening as a fundraiser, a presentation from the Redbridge foodbank in our main morning service, and a discussion of justice based on the parable of the Good Samaritan during our Going Deeper Evening Service. All part of the rich tapestry of life and experience that is parish ministry in East London!
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Sunday, 1 May 2011
Resurrection: evidence and belief
Thomas’ statement to the other disciples that, “Unless I see the scars of the nails in his hands and put my fingers on those scars and my hand in his side, I will not believe” is essentially one which is repeated regularly by atheists around the world. Here is a typical comment made in the discussion section of Richard Dawkins’ website, “I have never witnessed a scrap of evidence pointing to god's existence, which leads me to a total lack of belief in it.” Dawkins himself has said, "Faith is the great cop-out, the great excuse to evade the need to think and evaluate evidence. Faith is the belief in spite of, even perhaps because of, the lack of evidence."
How can we, as Christians, answer such assertions; because it is not enough simply to say that we believe and leave it at that?
First, we need to be clear that those who say there is no evidence for the existence of God seek to disallow the very evidence which has helped convince us otherwise by saying that the only acceptable evidence is scientifically measurable evidence. This is the argument that science and its methods provide the only way of knowing that gives us true knowledge of the world around us.
Yet, if that were to be the case then, for example, Friday’s Royal Wedding makes no real sense. Instead of being about the mutual celebrations of love and affection which we saw between the couple themselves and also between the people of this country and the royal family, on the basis of measurable scientific knowledge what occurred Friday simply becomes about the survival of the fittest through the passing on of selfish genes in procreation. Our experiences of love and faith cannot be adequately captured through the language of scientific measurement. Instead, we need the languages of belief and imagination to give voice to what we truly experience of love and faith. As the Bishop of London said in his sermon, "Faith and committed relationships offer a door into the mystery of spiritual life.”
Second, we need to understand that faith is fundamental to all true knowledge and that applies to scientific knowing as much as to any other form of knowing. Philip Sherrard has given forceful expression to this view:
“Every thought, every observation, every judgement, every description whether of the modern scientist or of anyone else is soaked in a priori preconceived built-in value-judgements, assumptions and dogmas at least as rigid, if not more rigid (because they are so often unconsciously embraced) than those of any explicitly religious system. The very nature of human thought is such that it cannot operate independently of value-judgements, assumptions and dogmas. Even the assertion that it can constitutes a value-judgement and implies a whole philosophy, whether we are aware of it or not.”
Scientists like Michael Polanyi have come to understand that faith is fundamental in the whole enterprise of understanding because all knowledge of reality rests upon faith commitments which cannot be demonstrated. As a result, scientists and philosophers of science are now rediscovering the vital role that the imagination has to play in their endeavours.
When there is an acceptance that other forms of knowing and other forms of evidence have validity, then two further arguments can be made. The first of these is that belief in God makes sense of our experiences of life and love in ways that give full weight to our experience of these things without contradicting the findings of science. On this basis, Christianity offers, as Lesslie Newbigin has argued, “the widest rationality, the greatest capacity to give meaning to the whole of experience.”
Second, the arguments for the resurrection made in the New Testament and also subsequently come into play. Many historians, lawyers and sceptics have testified to the convincing nature of this evidence when objectively considered. Many would, for example, agree with E. M. Blaiklock, Professor of Classics at Auckland University, who said, “the evidence for the life, the death, and the resurrection of Christ is better authenticated than most of the facts of ancient history . . .”
One of the earliest records of Christ's appearing after the resurrection is by Paul. The apostle appealed to his audience's knowledge of the fact that Christ had been seen by more than 500 people at one time. Paul reminded them that the majority of those people were still alive and could be questioned. Dr. Edwin M. Yamauchi, associate professor of history at Miami University in Oxford, Ohio, emphasizes: "What gives a special authority to the list (of witnesses) as historical evidence is the reference to most of the five hundred brethren being still alive. St. Paul says in effect, 'If you do not believe me, you can ask them.' Such a statement in an admittedly genuine letter written within thirty years of the event is almost as strong evidence as one could hope to get for something that happened nearly two thousand years ago." These New Testament accounts of the resurrection were being circulated within the lifetimes of men and women alive at the time of the resurrection; people who could certainly have confirmed or denied the accuracy of such accounts.
Another interesting example of evidence for the truth of Christianity and, in particular, the resurrection of Jesus, is the testimony of former skeptics, many of whom attempted to disprove Christian faith. Thomas is merely the first in a long line of such people which in more recent years have included Frank Morison, C. S. Lewis, Dr Gary Habermas, Alister McGrath, and Lee Strobel.
So, there is evidence for the existence of God and evidence for the resurrection of Jesus. Such evidence helps us in holding our faith and may, as was the case for those I have just listed, be helpful in bringing people to faith. However, we should never think that such evidences prove either the existence of God or the resurrection of Jesus. Ultimately, if we believe in both it is because of faith, not proof; just as atheists cannot disprove the existence of God and, therefore, also hold their beliefs on the basis of faith. Neither positions can be proved conclusively, so can only be held by faith.
That is what Jesus emphasizes to Thomas after confronting him with the physical and tangible evidence of the resurrection that he demanded. Jesus said, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed”:
Unless I see
the scars
of the nails
in his hands
and put my finger
on those scars
and my hand
in his side,
unless I can touch,
unless he is tangible,
unless I have proof,
I will not believe.
If you see
the scars
of the nails
in my hands
and put your finger
on those scars
and your hand
in my side,
if you can touch,
if I am tangible,
if you have proof,
you will not have belief.
Blessed are those
who cannot see
the scars
of the nails
in my hands
and put their fingers
on those scars
and their hands
in my side,
blessed are those who
cannot touch,
who are without
tangible proof,
for they truly believe.
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The Script - Science And Faith.
How can we, as Christians, answer such assertions; because it is not enough simply to say that we believe and leave it at that?
First, we need to be clear that those who say there is no evidence for the existence of God seek to disallow the very evidence which has helped convince us otherwise by saying that the only acceptable evidence is scientifically measurable evidence. This is the argument that science and its methods provide the only way of knowing that gives us true knowledge of the world around us.
Yet, if that were to be the case then, for example, Friday’s Royal Wedding makes no real sense. Instead of being about the mutual celebrations of love and affection which we saw between the couple themselves and also between the people of this country and the royal family, on the basis of measurable scientific knowledge what occurred Friday simply becomes about the survival of the fittest through the passing on of selfish genes in procreation. Our experiences of love and faith cannot be adequately captured through the language of scientific measurement. Instead, we need the languages of belief and imagination to give voice to what we truly experience of love and faith. As the Bishop of London said in his sermon, "Faith and committed relationships offer a door into the mystery of spiritual life.”
Second, we need to understand that faith is fundamental to all true knowledge and that applies to scientific knowing as much as to any other form of knowing. Philip Sherrard has given forceful expression to this view:
“Every thought, every observation, every judgement, every description whether of the modern scientist or of anyone else is soaked in a priori preconceived built-in value-judgements, assumptions and dogmas at least as rigid, if not more rigid (because they are so often unconsciously embraced) than those of any explicitly religious system. The very nature of human thought is such that it cannot operate independently of value-judgements, assumptions and dogmas. Even the assertion that it can constitutes a value-judgement and implies a whole philosophy, whether we are aware of it or not.”
Scientists like Michael Polanyi have come to understand that faith is fundamental in the whole enterprise of understanding because all knowledge of reality rests upon faith commitments which cannot be demonstrated. As a result, scientists and philosophers of science are now rediscovering the vital role that the imagination has to play in their endeavours.
When there is an acceptance that other forms of knowing and other forms of evidence have validity, then two further arguments can be made. The first of these is that belief in God makes sense of our experiences of life and love in ways that give full weight to our experience of these things without contradicting the findings of science. On this basis, Christianity offers, as Lesslie Newbigin has argued, “the widest rationality, the greatest capacity to give meaning to the whole of experience.”
Second, the arguments for the resurrection made in the New Testament and also subsequently come into play. Many historians, lawyers and sceptics have testified to the convincing nature of this evidence when objectively considered. Many would, for example, agree with E. M. Blaiklock, Professor of Classics at Auckland University, who said, “the evidence for the life, the death, and the resurrection of Christ is better authenticated than most of the facts of ancient history . . .”
One of the earliest records of Christ's appearing after the resurrection is by Paul. The apostle appealed to his audience's knowledge of the fact that Christ had been seen by more than 500 people at one time. Paul reminded them that the majority of those people were still alive and could be questioned. Dr. Edwin M. Yamauchi, associate professor of history at Miami University in Oxford, Ohio, emphasizes: "What gives a special authority to the list (of witnesses) as historical evidence is the reference to most of the five hundred brethren being still alive. St. Paul says in effect, 'If you do not believe me, you can ask them.' Such a statement in an admittedly genuine letter written within thirty years of the event is almost as strong evidence as one could hope to get for something that happened nearly two thousand years ago." These New Testament accounts of the resurrection were being circulated within the lifetimes of men and women alive at the time of the resurrection; people who could certainly have confirmed or denied the accuracy of such accounts.
Another interesting example of evidence for the truth of Christianity and, in particular, the resurrection of Jesus, is the testimony of former skeptics, many of whom attempted to disprove Christian faith. Thomas is merely the first in a long line of such people which in more recent years have included Frank Morison, C. S. Lewis, Dr Gary Habermas, Alister McGrath, and Lee Strobel.
So, there is evidence for the existence of God and evidence for the resurrection of Jesus. Such evidence helps us in holding our faith and may, as was the case for those I have just listed, be helpful in bringing people to faith. However, we should never think that such evidences prove either the existence of God or the resurrection of Jesus. Ultimately, if we believe in both it is because of faith, not proof; just as atheists cannot disprove the existence of God and, therefore, also hold their beliefs on the basis of faith. Neither positions can be proved conclusively, so can only be held by faith.
That is what Jesus emphasizes to Thomas after confronting him with the physical and tangible evidence of the resurrection that he demanded. Jesus said, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed”:
Unless I see
the scars
of the nails
in his hands
and put my finger
on those scars
and my hand
in his side,
unless I can touch,
unless he is tangible,
unless I have proof,
I will not believe.
If you see
the scars
of the nails
in my hands
and put your finger
on those scars
and your hand
in my side,
if you can touch,
if I am tangible,
if you have proof,
you will not have belief.
Blessed are those
who cannot see
the scars
of the nails
in my hands
and put their fingers
on those scars
and their hands
in my side,
blessed are those who
cannot touch,
who are without
tangible proof,
for they truly believe.
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The Script - Science And Faith.
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Monday, 4 April 2011
What makes a church wedding so special?
Our curate at St John's Seven Kings, Geoff Eze, features in an online video promoting church weddings has been launched on the Church of England website, to meet an increase in demand for information on church weddings. In the video Geoff asks and answers the question: "What makes a church wedding so special? The music, the hymns, the vicar, the venue, the powerful vows, and the love of two people coming together."
Featuring vicars enthusiastic about weddings, couples who have rated their church weddings extremely highly, and the Bishop of Hertford, the professionally produced five-minute video explains how the church has a warm wedding welcome for all. It can be viewed on the weddings website http://www.yourchurchwedding.org/ and on the national Church of England website http://www.churchofengland.org/.
So far this year http://www.yourchurchwedding.org/ has a monthly visitor average of around 50,000, compared to 33,000 visitors per month in 2010 (a 52 per cent year to year increase).
The video, and website, form part of the Church of England's project to promote church weddings that has included roadshows and workshops for clergy in many parts of the country.
The Rt Revd Paul Bayes, Bishop of Hertford, explains in the video: "Now people move around the country a lot more, we've changed the law so you can get married not just in your local church, but also in a whole range of churches that are special for you."
The Revd Rosie Harper, vicar of Great Missenden, Buckinghamshire, says: "Taking weddings is one of the most joyful parts of my job. And I don't mind whether people come to church often or not, whether they've been baptised or not, because it's everyone's church and so people can come and be welcomed and have a church wedding."
Rosie married Donna and Tod Bowsher, who also feature. Donna says: "The church family were really helpful making sure everything ran really smoothly… It's been said that there's love in the walls because it's so old and there's been so many weddings there, and you do absolutely feel that when you go in the church. So not only is it aesthetically a beautiful place, but it feels beautiful too." Two other couples share their memories of their church wedding.
Tamar Kasriel of Futureal, research adviser to the Archbishops' Council's Weddings Project, reveals: "The majority of the population in the UK… felt that a church wedding is somehow the proper place for a wedding."
Navin Motwani, e-communications officer at the Archbishops' Council, takes viewers through the useful website www.yourchurchwedding.org, introducing them to an online ceremony planner featuring hymns and Bible readings (now used to plan over a third of Church of England weddings), and helpful advice, such as the page Seven Steps to a Heavenly Wedding.
The five-minute Your Church Wedding video was produced with support from the Jerusalem Trust, and will remain online for the next 12 months.
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Regina Spektor - Us.
Featuring vicars enthusiastic about weddings, couples who have rated their church weddings extremely highly, and the Bishop of Hertford, the professionally produced five-minute video explains how the church has a warm wedding welcome for all. It can be viewed on the weddings website http://www.yourchurchwedding.org/ and on the national Church of England website http://www.churchofengland.org/.
So far this year http://www.yourchurchwedding.org/ has a monthly visitor average of around 50,000, compared to 33,000 visitors per month in 2010 (a 52 per cent year to year increase).
The video, and website, form part of the Church of England's project to promote church weddings that has included roadshows and workshops for clergy in many parts of the country.
The Rt Revd Paul Bayes, Bishop of Hertford, explains in the video: "Now people move around the country a lot more, we've changed the law so you can get married not just in your local church, but also in a whole range of churches that are special for you."
The Revd Rosie Harper, vicar of Great Missenden, Buckinghamshire, says: "Taking weddings is one of the most joyful parts of my job. And I don't mind whether people come to church often or not, whether they've been baptised or not, because it's everyone's church and so people can come and be welcomed and have a church wedding."
Rosie married Donna and Tod Bowsher, who also feature. Donna says: "The church family were really helpful making sure everything ran really smoothly… It's been said that there's love in the walls because it's so old and there's been so many weddings there, and you do absolutely feel that when you go in the church. So not only is it aesthetically a beautiful place, but it feels beautiful too." Two other couples share their memories of their church wedding.
Tamar Kasriel of Futureal, research adviser to the Archbishops' Council's Weddings Project, reveals: "The majority of the population in the UK… felt that a church wedding is somehow the proper place for a wedding."
Navin Motwani, e-communications officer at the Archbishops' Council, takes viewers through the useful website www.yourchurchwedding.org, introducing them to an online ceremony planner featuring hymns and Bible readings (now used to plan over a third of Church of England weddings), and helpful advice, such as the page Seven Steps to a Heavenly Wedding.
The five-minute Your Church Wedding video was produced with support from the Jerusalem Trust, and will remain online for the next 12 months.
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Regina Spektor - Us.
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