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Friday, 7 February 2014

National Marriage Week: The BIG Promise

Marriage vows are the most long-term promises we ever make – to love and care for someone else for the rest of our lives! They are a commitment to put someone else’s interests as equal to our own, and they involve setting aside our own short-term ‘wants’ for long-term stability and satisfaction.
They are life changing – and have a huge impact on the way our lives work out. For those that make them they are ‘the BIG Promise’.

Every year more than a quarter of a million couples across the UK signify their commitment to each other by getting married – they make, explicitly or implicitly, promises to each other that form the bedrock on which successful marriages are built.

And every year Marriage Week (7th – 14th February) celebrates all those promises down the years, and seeks to encourage and support couples in their marriages.

The Mothers’ Union vision is of a world where God’s love is shown through loving, respectful and flourishing relationships. This is not a vague hope, but a goal which is actively pursued by working with people of all faiths and none in 83 countries to promote stable marriage, family life and the protection of children through praying, enabling and campaigning.

There is a natural fit between the aims of the Mothers’ Union and those of National Marriage Week which is why our MU branch at St John's Seven Kings regularly organises a display in the St John’s Centre for Marriage Week. This is in addition to its ongoing work of running our Contact Centre and Pram Club plus fundraising for MU projects and a regular programme of branch meetings. This year our display focuses on those in our congregation with significant Wedding Anniversaries during 2014.

Marriage Week celebrates healthy marriages as this social institution, which has been enshrined in the history of civilization, provides vital inter-generational links and stability bringing benefits to all of society. So, it is a Week, not just for those who are married, but for everyone who loves healthy marriage. Similarly, the members of the Mothers’ Union are not all mothers, or even all women. They are single, married, parents, grandparents, or young adults just beginning to express their social conscience; anyone who wishes to promote stable marriage, family life and the protection of children through praying, enabling and campaigning.

Does that describe you? Why not find out more about the work of Mothers’ Union during Marriage Week?

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The Dixie Cups - Chapel of Love.

Thursday, 6 February 2014

St John's in the Ilford Recorder




There are three pieces in the Ilford Recorder this week that relate to St John's Seven Kings. I have written the Spiritual Life column which focuses on National Marriage Week and which mentions the Mothers' Union display that will be in the lounge of the St John's Centre during Marriage Week. 

St John's was one of the three churches that commissioned a painting from Henry Shelton, through commission4mission, as a retirement gift for Fr. Benjamin Rutt-Field in thanks for his ministry at St Paul's Goodmayes and within our cluster of churches. This painting was also featured in the Church Times.

Finally, the Recorder has a piece about the Sophia Course which began at St John's last night as part of the Sophia Hubs social enterprise project which is based in the building. we had an excellent session with an enthusiastic and inspiring group of people all wanting to utilise their skills and ideas for the benefit of the local community.

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Water into Wine Band - Stranger In This World. 

Monday, 3 February 2014

Windows on the world (279)


London, 2013

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Michael Omartian - Take Me Down.

United for Christ band at St John's






Last night the worship in our Evening Service at St John's Seven Kings was led by the United for Christ band, a local youth worship band. UFC led us in worship reflecting God's presence with us in all the changing scenes of life, while spoke about the privilege and challenge of being a temple for God's Holy Spirit:

In John 2. 13-22 Jesus cleanses the Temple but then says that the new Temple is his body which is shortly to die and be raised to life again after three days.

The physical Temple was destroyed in AD70 by the Romans, as Jesus had prophesied, and this left Jews and Christians with a dilemma; where to worship now the focus of worship had been removed. The Jews solved this problem by making synagogues the heart of Judaism while Christians understood that, as the church is the body of Christ, the Holy Spirit lives in us, as in Jesus’ physical body, and so we too are temples of the Holy Spirit.

We see this teaching worked out and applied by Paul in 1 Corinthians 6. 13b – 20 where he ends by saying:

“Don’t you know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and who was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourselves but to God; he bought you for a price. So use your bodies for God’s glory.”      

If we are now God’s temple because he lives in us by his Holy Spirit, then says Paul, there is another cleansing that needs to go on. Our bodies, our lives need to be made into a fit dwelling place for the Spirit of God. Our lives need to become houses of prayer not a den of thieves and that means that they need to be cleansed of all that is wrong, sinful or unholy and used for the glory of God.

Let us reflect both on the wonderful privilege of being a body, a life, a person where God lives by his Spirit and on the tremendous responsibility of being a temple of the Holy Spirit.

In what ways do our lives need cleansing? Do our lives resemble a ‘market place’ or a ‘house of prayer’? Can we give our temple of God’s Spirit a full and proper spring clean driving out by prayer and fasting all that is sinful in our lives and committing ourselves to hallowing our lives through prayer and sacrifice as we follow in Jesus’ footsteps.

“Don’t you know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and who was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourselves but to God; he bought you for a price. So use your bodies for God’s glory.”      

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Hillsong - Glorious Ruins.

Sunday, 2 February 2014

Practising the presence of God in the sacrament of the present moment

All babies look like Winston Churchill! The story goes that a friend once remarked to Churchill, "Winston! How wonderfully your new grandson resembles you!" and Churchill immediately replied, "All babies look like me. But then, I look like all babies."

Whether a true story or not, the phrase “all babies look like Winston Churchill” entered popular culture as a way of saying that, although we naturally look to see the characteristic features of both parents’ families in the face of a new born child, all newborn babies look very similar because at that stage the distinctive characteristics of their face have yet to develop fully.

Think about that in relation to the story from Luke’s Gospel (Luke 2: 22-40) that we have heard read this morning when Simeon and Anna both knew that the six week old baby in Mary’s arms was God’s Messiah, the one who would bring salvation to all peoples. Now, at that time all six week old babies had to be brought to the Temple in Jerusalem. So there would have been other babies there on the same day and Simeon and Anna seem to have both been regular visitors to the Temple looking out for God’s Messiah. They might have seen thousands of six week old babies over the years that they had spent in the Temple. How did Simeon and Anna know that baby Jesus was different from all the other babies that they had seen brought into the Temple?

It was the Holy Spirit that led Simeon into the Temple on that day so that he could encounter Jesus and it was the Holy Spirit that had assured him that he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s promised Messiah. In addition, Simeon was waiting – looking out, praying for, expecting – Israel to be saved. He was expecting God to reveal the Messiah to him before he died and so he would have been constantly looking for signs of the Messiah. So, we have a combination of the Holy Spirit’s revelation and Simeon’s expectation – his active looking - that reveal the Messiah to him in a six week old baby boy.

Often God’s work in the world and in other people is not easy to spot. God works in and through the ordinary and everyday, through the people and things around us and we need to be looking out for signs of his activity and presence. We need to be listening for his Holy Spirit to prompt us to look at some ordinary thing or ordinary person in order to see God at work.

In the film American Beauty, Ricky shows Jane a blurry video of a plastic bag blowing in the wind among autumn leaves. As they watch he explains that "this bag was, like, dancing with me. Like a little kid begging me to play with it. . . . And that’s the day I knew there was this entire life behind things, and this incredibly benevolent force, that wanted me to know there was no reason to be afraid. Ever." "Sometimes,” he says, “there’s so much beauty in the world I feel like I can’t take it, like my heart’s going to cave in.” To encounter God as that incredibly benevolent force that wants us to know that there is no reason to ever feel afraid, we need to pay attention to the beauty of the ordinary, overlooked things in life, like a plastic bag being blown by the wind. As Saint Augustine said, “How many common things are trodden underfoot which, if examined carefully, awaken our astonishment.”

Jean Pierre de Caussade was a French Jesuit priest and writer known for his work Abandonment toDivine Providence and his work with Nuns of the Visitation in Nancy, France. De Caussade coined a phrase to describe what we have just been talking about. He called it 'The Sacrament of the Present Moment,' which ‘refers to God's coming to us at each moment, as really and truly as God is present in the Sacraments of the Church ... In other words, in each moment of our lives God is present under the signs of what is ordinary and mundane. Only those who are spiritually aware and alert discover God's presence in what can seem like nothing at all. This keeps us from thinking and behaving as if only grand deeds and high flown sentiments are 'Godly'. Rather, God is equally present in the small things of life as in the great. God is there in life's daily routine, in dull moments, in dry prayers ... There is nothing that happens to us in which God cannot be found. What we need are the eyes of faith to discern God as God comes at each moment - truly present, truly living, truly attentive to the needs of each one.’ (Elizabeth Ruth Obbard, Life in God's NOW, New City, 2012)

‘To pay profound attention to reality is prayer, because to enter the depths of this moment is to encounter God. There is always only now. It is the only place that God can be found.’ So, 'Contemplative prayer is the art of paying attention to what is.’ (Simon Small, 'From the Bottom of the Pond', O Books, 2007)

Brother Lawrence was a member of the Carmelite Order in France during the 17th Century. He spent most of his life in the kitchen or mending shoes, but became a great spiritual guide. He saw God in the mundane tasks he carried out in the priory kitchen. Daily life for him was an ongoing conversation with God. He wrote: “we need only to recognize God intimately present with us, to address ourselves to Him every moment.”

As a result, "The time of action does not differ from that of prayer. I possess God as peacefully in the bustle of my kitchen, where sometimes several people are asking me for different things at the same time, as I do upon my knees before the Holy Sacrament.”

“It is not needful to have great things to do. I turn my little omelette in the pan for the love of God. When it is finished, if I have nothing to do, I prostrate myself on the ground and worship my God, who gave me the grace to make it, after which I arise happier than a king. When I can do nothing else, it is enough to have picked up a straw for the love of God.”

“We ought not to be weary of doing little things for the love of God, who regards not the greatness of the work, but the love with which it is performed.”

This sort of spirituality - the sense of the presence of God in all things, and the possibility of honouring God in every action is also found in our hymn books. We sing:

‘Teach me, my God and King,
In all things thee to see,
And what I do in any thing,
          To do it as for thee:’

George Herbert’s hymn, originally a poem called ‘The Elixir,’ ends with these words:

‘A servant with this clause
          Makes drudgery divine:
Who sweeps a room, as for thy laws,
          Makes that and the action fine.

          This is the famous stone
          That turneth all to gold:
For that which God doth touch and own
          Cannot for less be told.’

If we practising the presence of God in the sacrament of the present moment, as Brother Lawrence and Jean Pierre de Caussade teach us, then we will be like Simeon and Anna, able to signs of God’s activity and presence all around us. Because, as Bill Fay sings, when our eyes are open and our hearts are expectant:

‘There are miracles,
In the strangest of places
There are miracles,
Everywhere you go
I see fathers,
Hold a little child's hand
I see mothers,
Holding a little child's hand
I see trees, trees,
Blowing in the wind
I see seeds,
Being sown by the wind
It's a cosmic concerto,
and it stirs my soul.

I see grandmas,
Blowing kisses into a pram
I see grandpas,
Scratching their head in amazement
It's a cosmic concerto,
and it stirs my soul
It's a cosmic concerto,
and it stirs my soul.’

Let us pray: Help me become attentive to this moment which will never come again. May I know you in the sacrament of the present moment seeing that you are there in life's daily routine, in dull moments, in dry prayers. More than that, that all is in you, all is held in the palms of your hands. May I see the present moment as though I were walking on my hands, seeing the world hanging upside to know dependence and rest in the Maker’s hands. Amen.

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Bill Fay - Cosmic Concerto (Life Is People).

Dalton and Deller in Waltham Forest

Pen Dalton's printed wall installation 'Matrilineal Descent' at Tokarska Gallery uses Dalton's own family history to raise issues identity, gender, migration and motherhood. Originally designed for an academic conference on identity in Northern Ireland and informed by writings on identity from Michel Foucault and Stuart Hall that regard ‘the self’ as formed within specific historic, cultural and social contexts, 'Matrilineal Descent' is a powerful, personal piece where the personal informs the wider work and the issues it raises. This installation is complemented by a series of text-based prints - copies of which are in the V&A - that draw on feminist psychoanalytic/linguistic theory – notably that of Julia Kristeva - in exploring understandings of motherhood.

Through her work in art education Dalton has argued "that modernist art education has been and continues to be a complex of gendered discursive practices: saturated through with masculine and feminine divisions and hierarchies which in turn produce gendered identities as hierarchical and working class girls as subordinate, ready to assume subordinate positions in the wider social and
economic culture."

Identity is also the theme at the William Morris Gallery which hosts Jeremy Deller's English Magic. English Magic reflects "the roots of much of Deller’s work, focusing on British society - its people, icons, myths, folklore and its cultural and political history." He has addressed events from the past, present and an imagined future and worked with a varied range of collaborators including archeologists, musicians, bird sanctuaries, prisoners and painters.

His film, also entitled English Magic, forms a major part of the exhibition, bringing together many of the ideas behind the works and featuring the visual and thematic elements that reflect Deller's interest in the diverse nature of British society and its broad cultural, socio-political and economic history. The music is performed by the Melodians Steel Orchestra from South London and was recorded in Studio 2 of Abbey Road Studios in London:






The William Morris Gallery, the place of Morris birth, has recently been transformed to create a new world-class destination and international centre of excellence for the study of Morris, where visitors can enjoy the most intense and personal encounter with one of the foremost creative artists and original thinkers of the nineteenth century.

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Jeremy Deller - English Magic.


Saturday, 1 February 2014

Prayer morning with labyrinth










Here is the programme that we used for the Prayer Morning at St John's Seven Kings today:
10­.00am - 10.15am:   General opening prayer. Bible reading: Psalm 130, Luke 6:12-13, Mark 9:27-29 and Matthew 7:7
10.15am - 10.30am: Period of silence and private prayer. (Thinking about the power of answered prayer in your life, perhaps people will also use this opportunity to use the labyrinth in the hall)
10.30am - 11am: Power of prayer in your life (Thanking God, sharing individual testimonies and expressions of gratitude to God)
11.00am - 11.30am: praying for:
Ø  World peace - for revival  and spiritual awakening
Ø  World/natural disaster
Ø  Our community- for revival  and spiritual awakening
Ø  Our families
Ø  Other faiths /other countries
Ø  Bereaved families/ sick people.
Ø  School children and their education
Ø  Other activities within St John (Slimming world, Alcoholics Anonymous, Asian Women’s group, Banners group, Blood Donors, Brownies, Contact Centre, Councillor surgeries, Downshall Pre-School Playgroup, Friendship group,  Kumon, Pram club, Parent & Toddler group, Shine stage school, Yoga class and many others who use St John’s church hall and premises.
11.30-12.30pm: Praying for our church (representatives will pray for the various groups in our church)
Ø  Youth group
Ø  Sunday school group
Ø  Ministry leaders and groups
Ø  Food bank initiative
Ø  Peace and justice
Ø  Choirs
Ø  Mother union
Ø  Fund raising group
Ø  PCC
Ø  Building committee
Ø  House groups
12.30pm – 13.00pm: There will be provision of a labyrinth in the hall so people will have opportunity to use it as they wish
Our thanks to all those who organised and came to the Prayer Morning.
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Kansas - Crossfire.